People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never known. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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This is a post that i came across and it certainly left me think. It seems to make a lot of sense but yet at the same time it doesn't. I think i need to go and think about it more and whose know, maybe i'll get a revelation? haha. I guess i'm always messed up when it comes to concerning people. As much as i want to bring all my friends along with me in life, i may and am not able to and they make not want to either. Wadeva it is, i've hit a rough patch again and i'm still figuring how to get outa it. Actually, i think i already know what the problems are and how to deal with it. So now its more of if i can and want to face them, and if i want to deal with them. My thinking/mentality is seriously warped now, after all that happened. My heart is closed and i feel so stuck unless i decide to let go and move on. But yea, thats the hard part, to convinc myself of all the right stuff that i should do and think of. I need a renewed mind. I need the courage.
Xinying just told me, " it is part of life that people that we're comfortable with have to leave or be separated from us. It is for us to grow even more."
Hah. It hits me. How could i forget about that. Its funny isnt it. That when things happen, all the stuff that you know or the beliefs that you have just seems to disappear. You just seems to forget about all the lessons or sayings that you learnt. Haha. I dunno. But thats what i realised. Maybe it just show how strong and rooted you are?
There's actually a lot that i wanna say. But i think i need to go and straighten my thoughts out first. They are running maddddddddd.....and i need to deal with it fast, its ruining my daily ability to function! Roars.
And i'm so Sorry to all you guys around me! If my emoness is putting you guys down too. and thanks for the encouragements and efforts to keep trying to pull me up. very appreciated. i'm sorry that i 'weigh so heavy' that it is so hard to pull but i'll be back, up again soon, i promise, i try.
wanz- emo & stucked
listening to: Jay Chou- Bu neng shou de mi mi
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never known. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
- - - - - - - - --
This is a post that i came across and it certainly left me think. It seems to make a lot of sense but yet at the same time it doesn't. I think i need to go and think about it more and whose know, maybe i'll get a revelation? haha. I guess i'm always messed up when it comes to concerning people. As much as i want to bring all my friends along with me in life, i may and am not able to and they make not want to either. Wadeva it is, i've hit a rough patch again and i'm still figuring how to get outa it. Actually, i think i already know what the problems are and how to deal with it. So now its more of if i can and want to face them, and if i want to deal with them. My thinking/mentality is seriously warped now, after all that happened. My heart is closed and i feel so stuck unless i decide to let go and move on. But yea, thats the hard part, to convinc myself of all the right stuff that i should do and think of. I need a renewed mind. I need the courage.
Xinying just told me, " it is part of life that people that we're comfortable with have to leave or be separated from us. It is for us to grow even more."
Hah. It hits me. How could i forget about that. Its funny isnt it. That when things happen, all the stuff that you know or the beliefs that you have just seems to disappear. You just seems to forget about all the lessons or sayings that you learnt. Haha. I dunno. But thats what i realised. Maybe it just show how strong and rooted you are?
There's actually a lot that i wanna say. But i think i need to go and straighten my thoughts out first. They are running maddddddddd.....and i need to deal with it fast, its ruining my daily ability to function! Roars.
And i'm so Sorry to all you guys around me! If my emoness is putting you guys down too. and thanks for the encouragements and efforts to keep trying to pull me up. very appreciated. i'm sorry that i 'weigh so heavy' that it is so hard to pull but i'll be back, up again soon, i promise, i try.
wanz- emo & stucked
listening to: Jay Chou- Bu neng shou de mi mi
Labels: Heart matters, The Lit.
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