I was chatting with a friend and we touched on the topic about the caring system. The conversation went on something like this.

Me: I don't really approve of the caring system. If I'm a new friend and I sat in a Svc/CG that is teaching about caring system. I will feel quite stunned and puzzled or even disappointed. I mean to care for a person should be genuinely from the heart and if one truly cares for the person, it’s from the heart and shouldn't be done through some system.

Friend: Ya, that's why I told my connect group members I'm not going to implement any caring system.

Me: Ya, I don't usually carry it out also. It's either I care for that person or totally bochap. I don't believe in caring for a person just for the sake of it. That's so fake. Hmm, then isn't quite sad to know that you're being cared for,for the sake of it? It's like...a product?

Friend: Ya, the product of a caring system...

Me: Product of a caring system...

The conversation got me thinking a lot and of course wavered and emoed... product of a caring system...